Wednesday, 25 May 2016

The sound of hope & possibility

At one point, I grew up in an estate in Langata and it was right next to Malezi School....In the early morning of a new term, you could hear the lil ones crying since they missed home...and this was a new place for them. With time they settled in and now all you could here was nursery rhymes being recited over and over and over again.

The one incident that makes me laugh till today is when they used to sing......Oh Mwana Mberi, Oh Mwana Mberi..... a popular Luhya song in praise of first borns...but they sang it so slowly that my mum was like...eish...these kids are singing the song as if they are drunkards!!! LOL

Now I stay near a school and I love the sound of children singing in the background and children laughing and screaming with glee during breaks...I really admire teachers and how they can mold children from blank slates to what we know them to be!!!

Am reminded of this today...coincidentally at work, am also next to a school and these sounds fill the air all the time....the sounds of hope & infinite possibilities...


God bless our lil children!

Monday, 23 May 2016

Mater Heart Run 2016...great cause of support!

May rolled in and of course we simply had to take part in the Mater Heart Run...this is a must for our house :) If there is one cause I support whole heartedly its this one....that a child can get a much needed asssistance so that they can enjoy their childhood even more and grow into healthy adulthood!

I have been taking part in this walk for a long time...but the earliest photo I could find was for 2009...in 2010, my nephew and son also took part for the first time and boy, weren't they tired!! in 2013, my daughter took part and I had to enlist help so that she can be carried should she give up...and for sure we took turns to carry her. In 2015, I didn't take part, but kids went for it (no photo :( ).




So in 2016, when the two days before the walk was raining like its been sent by sijui what,...I almost gave up on it, don't wish to be rained on with no place to shelter. By mid morning, the sun was out on the Friday before the walk/run so I dashed to Nakumatt Junction and got me 4 T-shirts. That evening, an idea hit me as I was looking at the route, that we can actually make it more fun, by taking part in the walk in Machakos instead....not far from Nairobi and not as hilly (that upper hill stretch kills me!!)

So early Saturday, off  we went to Machakos...we were there at 7.30am...kumbe the walk starts at 8am as per the program...so we took some snacks and waited patiently. Lots of school children!! and the Guest of Honour acknowledged that 50% of the contributions normally comes from school children..so nice!! Finally 10am we set off, and the looming dark clouds had cleared...the walked seemed so long,....but worth it



Finally we were done and off we went to Machakos Peoples park for some lunch...hubby even tried some zip lining (to the amazement of the kids!!)



Well done Mater!! May you always extend the heart of mercy to lil ones!!

Wednesday, 18 May 2016

Elephant in the area...

I saw an elephant for the first time in Marsabit



This was just outside my room at the Marsabit lodge....early 2005!! thats a long time ago...but the sight was one to behold...my mouth was just open...I couldnt even move....the elephant was so close...it was a young one and soon the older ones came closer as well...you see there was a salt pit (i think that's what its called) and it attracts them closer to the rooms and you can then marvel at them, up close and ...well, up close!!...and i took a picture of the two of them!!

After that, I have seen several of them, several times.....mostly on the way to Maralal...that park seems to have many walking around. There was one time we met a lone elephant...that thing was massive!! and right in the middle of the road....my colleagues told the driver, flash lights at it...am like....nooooooooooo.....i think i read somewhere that a lone elephant is not a happy elephant!! i was so scared....and luckily the elephant calmly walked away before the lights were flashed!!...and i took a picture of it as it sauntered away...



I have touched one in Tsavo East ama West, i forget which one....but for that one we had to wake up early in the morning so that we can get to the place where they are taken care of!! took a photo too (looking shocked at the proximity)!!



And the one that crowns it is David Sheldrick Wildlife Trust, right here in Nairobi. Everytime we had colleagues come into Kenya, this was a must stop for them, but I had never been. So one morning we trooped there, my sisters and kids, even the neighbours kids!! That was mad fun! and i loved the way the kids marvelled at the baby elephants being given milk in massive bottles....loved that visit!!

#whyiloveKenya #worthmorealive #tembekenya

Tuesday, 17 May 2016

May peace prevail!!


Am seating here taking a break from work, by glancing at Facebook

Then I see all these images of the guy in green being mercilessly beaten by security agents...the agents seems angry...they seem to have a task to complete....they seem to have been very ready to mete out all their anger on whoever they can tackle to the ground

Am getting scared of what this means….

The guy was already down….why beat him some more and stamp him with heavy boots!!

Someone mentions that the guy passed away!!! (later...on 19th May, he was interviewed, he had survived!)

Makes me even more scared!

Means if you can cornered in whichever place, they can actually beat you up that you are a protestor….waaa

and this is more than 1 year to elections - itakuaje from now?? does it mean its one way or the highway....

God help us!

Surely, dialogue is not a sign of weakness!


Car trouble..

One of the things I fear most is car trouble!!

From the simple one of early morning, when you are ready to go and boom, flat tyre ....to the more complex problems where the dash board has turned red because everything seems to be wrong!!

I once packed my sisters and their kids into the car and we were to head off to see Giraffes and of course having this loud conversations as we usually do, so am not really noticing that something is a miss with the car. Shortly, the car just stops!! It agrees to start and i move it to the side of the road and by this time we are already in Karen.....seems to be smoking from the front and so we agree, lets go to Hardy police area since there is a petrol station there.....by the time we got to Hardy the car swayed and for sure stopped. When the mechanic opened the bonnet, one pipe was off....yaani the car was thirsty like a nonsense! silly me had totally forgotten to check coolant!! and that's where the problem with that car started!! it became so sensitive, I would rather use public means!!

Another time, am driving calmly along statehouse rd, and the front park starts smoking!! clear smoke....surely the car has just come from the garage!! and so i call the mechanic and he says,  if the indicator for engine heating up is not on, then ni sawa tuu, hiyo gari can still move...am like, ehh? me, still drive a smoking car, ebu come and pick it! i slowly drove it to the nearest petrol station and he sent his mechanic....and the guy is like hii gari iko sawa....told him chukua tuu...mm nimeenda home...leta kesho kama haina moshi!!



ION - don't you just appreciate those mechanics who come and pick the car from you, change what needs to be done and bring back with invoice....I had one like that for a couple of months until funny dude conned me by not replacing a part and invoicing me for it!! The car had the same problem and I sort second opinion and the guy tells me you need to replace XYZ and I say, I did that last week...and he tells me nope, its an old one!!

If only mechanics knew that honesty is the best policy, hiyo biashara can boom esp with ladies, who am sure, many are like me, who would rather do something else, than watch a car being repaired!!!

Monday, 16 May 2016

About last nite...BAKE awards

Ever since I decided to start my blog, I knew I had to get into groups that would give me the psyche to blog continously...so BAKE was the most relevant...so I joined them

Was a nice surprise to receive an email, that as a member of BAKE, welcome to the 5th BAKE awards at the Radisson Blu (no less!!)...I quickly hunted for a plus one and got my younger sis to tag along



So thats how we found ourselves all decked up and ready to roll on Saturday evening...it was great fun and a new experience and my oh my, we took loads of pics....hehehehe was imagining if hubby agreed to come, that could have been less than 5 shots to sum up the evening!!!

Anyhooo...there were various awards and of course a big CONGRATULATIONS to all the nominees and the winners....some blogs i have never had of, and others am a fan like no one else

It was interesting the way the speakers kept saying that they were told its difficult to speak to bloggers and that they should not give long accounts of whatever it is they were talking about...mmmhhh that sounds like a rumour

The winners were varied, but most seemed to be petite young women....mm....researchable topic that one!

and finally the big award of the night went to non other than Chocolate man himself BIKOZULU....alililili....but he was missing in action....though i have a feeling that he was in the audience but hates attention and keeps saying in his blogs that he wouldnt want his identity revealed...so that summed up the night, after the heavy snacks we left...for more music elsewhere!! but not before taking a selfie at the dropdown banner :) :)





http://www.blogawards.co.ke/2016/05/14/and-the-winners-are/

Friday, 13 May 2016

Baridi!

eh si nairobi  is cold these days!!

am in a warm sweater and jacket

and still had to put on the heater

my phone says its 18 degrees

but i beg to differ....more like 2!! :)

anyways, better cold than rain

better rain ya usiku

ile that makes you glad you are home and dry

but i guess not all our prayers can be answered the same way

someone else hates the hot weather

someone else wants it to rain

either way

nairobi is too cold!!!

LADIES LEADERSHIP & ACCOUNTABILITY CONFERENCE 2016

Published in The Accountant - ICPAK Journal May-June 2016 edition
https://www.icpak.com/journal/

LADIES LEADERSHIP & ACCOUNTABILITY CONFERENCE 2016

Theme: Women as architects and champions of leadership and accountability in Kenya

Date: 9th to 11th March, 2016

By Association of Women Accountants of Kenya (AWAK)

Venue: Sarova White Sands Beach Resort & Spa Mombasa



There is always a first time for everything! And this was a first for AWAK – to organise the 1st Ladies Leadership & Accountability Conference 2016. AWAK is determined to make this event an annual event and with this start the sky is indeed the limit

                          

AWAK is the Association of Women Accountants of Kenya- AWAK;a non-political and non-profit making professional women accountants' organization – that was registered in 1994 under the Societies Act. Our vision is to be a globally recognized women accountant's organization, and our mission is to build capacity among women accountants to enable them access opportunities.Currently membership stands at 350 women and we aim to grow this to 2000 by end of 2019. AWAK is governed by a Board that is elected from the membership and Secretariat that runs the day to day affairs.



The Conference was organised with the realisation that the 21st Century has had significant focus on the gender agenda with governments across the globe persistently placing a high priority on achieving gender equality and empowering women and girls. Despite the focus, women continue to face enormous challenges as they try to engage in leadership and accountability efforts in a world where breakthrough technologies, demographic shifts and political transformations have far-reaching societal and economic consequences.


One of the key agendas of the Post 2015 UN sustainable development Goals is to ensure women’s full and effective participation and equal opportunities for leadership at all levels of decision-making in political, economic, and public life. This is important especially because women possess distinct qualities such as behavioural adaptability, intercultural competency; cultural, emotional and social intelligence that endear them to be agents and architects of change. As such they need to take up their rightful position and offer alternative leadership that transcends the boarders of race, class, gender and nation and lead Kenya to greater heights.


As Kenya continues to take up this challenge and ensure the full implementation of the two-thirds gender rule and other affirmative action measures, women need to be prepared and be ready to take up the challenges. The country now more than ever needed a people who will stand and show alternative form of leadership; leadership that enhances accountability and societal values. This is thus the essence of this conference; to prepare women to champion and foster leadership and accountability in Kenya.


The conference aimed to

a) Prepare the women as architects and champions of leadership and accountability in Kenya by exploring the challenges, experiences, visions and achievements that continue to shape women leadership in the country and in the region.

b) Explore the emerging trends in business and entrepreneurship and present opportunities to women. The dynamics of technology and an ever changing global market calls for; re-branding, re-engineering and perpetual re-orienting, hence a total consolidation of all gains to suit the day.


Eighty-five (85) women from all over Kenya attended the conference. They came from private and public sector, across all ages and the sessions were energised, fun and inspiring.


The Governor of Mombasa County Hon Ali Hassan Joho opened the conference – whose speech was read by CPA Ahmed Farah his Economic Advisor. He welcomed the participants and wished them fruitful deliberations, and thanked AWAK for choosing Mombasa County to host the conference. CPA Jennifer Kamande Chairperson of AWAK then welcomes participants to the inaugural conference.


Hon Justice Njoki Ndungu – Judge of the Supreme Court of Kenya in sharing her experience about being an active political party member & a nominated MP challenged professionals to document stories about the gains made and the loops they have had to be crossed so that the younger generation can learn from this experience. That the glass ceiling is still there but much thinner than 50 years earlier and we have the women to thank for that so we should acknowledge and appreciate their contribution to the profession. AWAK members were also introduced to CPA Charity Muya who was the first lady to become a certified Accountant in Kenya  in April 1976


Cabinet Secretary Amb. Amina Mohamed (in charge of Foreign affairs) in addressing the conference on the Visionary Leader, encouraged participants that professionals need to make an impact in their work. For instance in her ministry the ratio of women to men is 47/53 and with time, the ministry will achieve 50/50. She said her biggest advantage in being effective was that she rose within the system.


 Madam Sarah Serem – Chair of the Salary and Remunerations Commission (SRC) known for her firm approach to dealing with issues – gave interesting insights on Growing Your Value. Her message was clear – that one needs to be a person of unwavering principles since more often than not, these principles will be brought to test and people need to know the kind of professional they are dealing with.


Madam Susan Mudhune – a career banker and member of several Boards including one time being Chair of Kenya Commercial Bank shared her insights on women’s role in development and wealth creation.   


Dr Bertha Kaimenyi a campaigner for Balanced Living challenged the conference to always consider the very important things in life before making professional choices – because ultimately, money and fame are not as important as family. That 90% of our happiness comes from our family, our health and our attitude and 10% from career – yet we spend more time in developing career than in what gives us more happiness – food for thought indeed!!


Other speakers touched on the issue of mentorship and coaching and on the business opportunities available to women from government. Participants were also given room to pitch & market the businesses they run!


The conference was an excellent forum to network with professionals from all over Kenya and this was crowned at a dinner event where there was a memorable mix of good food and music!! The conference ended with a visit to Tumaini Children’s home to inspire and share some motherly love with the little ones! Their teacher challenged them that even girls can understand mathematics (given all the lady accountants present!!)

AWAK is very pleased to report that the conference evaluation showed that participants thought the speakers were excellent choices and indicated that their expectations were met! Indeed a standard of excellence has been set - AWAK therefore can conclude that the event was a resounding success and we look forward to more opportunities to engage and grow together as professionals – just as our motto reads Uplifting Our World.

AWAK appreciates the women of excellence who accepted our invite and graced the event as speakers to share their invaluable experience for other women to tap into – united we stand! We would also wish to express sincere gratitude to ICPAK, Manu Chandaria and KASNEB for their support towards this conference.

Look out for the next conference in 2017!!


Compiled by CPA Hilda Mawanda, member of AWAK & ICPAK; Financial ManagementSpecialist (non-profit sector)|www.awak.co.ke|@AWAK2016 | awak@awak.co.ke

Thursday, 12 May 2016

Wedding vows

Attending a wedding always makes for interesting reflection on marriage

So on Wednesday, I attended a cosy wedding in Nairobi and the priest, I must say, was very interesting. and gave a befitting homily. He said that marriage is a covenant, not a contract, not a partnership....as it is sacred. To emphasise this he said, even politicians are never allowed at the alter, only Priests and those assisting them....but during a wedding ceremony, the couple seats at the alter, because they are making convenant ...with God.

That in a contract you can break it anytime, BUT a covenant is for life! In a contract you can agree on terms eg 50/50.....but in a covenant, it can be 70/30...50/50....90/10 or even 100/0....some days are good, somedays not so good...either way, you are committed to it and so commit also to make it work!

That love has been reduced to a 'feeling'...and he says, if its a feeling, then just like anger, it can come and it can go....Love is deeper than that....its a matter of ones will....and has to be shown by actions and the sacrifices one has to make....for the sake of the union.

That prayer is key in marriage...pray for each other....bless each other....accept the children God gives.....he says that someone once said that we need to pray the day before we die....the question then becomes....but who knows when one will die?? and the answer is EXACTLY!! need to commit our lives and actions to God on a daily basis!

Loved it!!

Wise (and powerful) words for a Wednesday!!

Tuesday, 10 May 2016

Save them from falling through the cracks

So I am watching this young lady being interviewed on TV on how grateful she was that her story was highlighted in the press and Mama Lucy Kibaki (in person) gave her mother a call and voila, she got full sponsorship. She didnt dissapoint and bagged a straight A in KCSE and is now a first year pursuing Engineering!! Well done for her !!

I felt happy for her - her name is Stella Wanjiku, but my heart really went out to all the other children, the other Wanjikus  & Ahmeds who are listening to her narrate her story of sheer luck and wishing that they too had their story highlighted and got a solid sponsor.

Should Kenyan children of high IQ wish for this?

Is it their fault that they come from humble homes??

Shouldnt each and every child who at the very least, scored an impressive grade be assured of Secondary and University education by the Kenyan government??

Shouldnt children who secured a seat in national school never get denied entry because of lack of funds??

I know thousands are identified and supported by private initiatives like the impressive Wings to Fly (Equity Foundation), Jomo Kenyatta Foundation, Hilde Buck Foundation, Palm House and many others.

I dare say that for any child called to a national school in this country of ours automatically deserves full sponsorship


We can afford it!

We MUST afford it!

Monday, 9 May 2016

Common girl!! Drink some water!!

Common girl!! Drink some water!!

Thats what i have to keep telling myself all the time

Kwanza in this yoyo weather!!!

You see, I always maintain that I was a normal water drinker, up until I went to school in Limuru and the mere thought of having to take water made me have no thirst, at all. The place was frozen half the time (ok, i exaggerate) and cant even jog my memory of when and how gals drank water in school - maybe we all didnt take any water!!

Anyways, this unhealthy habit has stuck with me

I cant just get myself to drink the recommended 2litres of water, at most 250ml to wash down lunch and another to wash down dinner!! Various articles recommend that one need to take 2 glasses when they wake up!! 2 whole glasses.....aii.....how is that possible!!

Given that i know myself, I got me this water bottle...so that i fill it with water and place it right infront of me so that am compelled to sip the water until i finish....at least one for a start!!

So here goes!!

Hope the results are clear skin and bright smile :)



Day one in school

May 4th

Last one begins new school today

Glad that today am working from home so could take him to school and be on hand when he gets back. The thing about these preschool levels is that 8.30 and 12.30 seems such a short time, from my window i can see young ones being picked and in no time i hear the bus again, dropping them off! then i know i need to take a break!!

He didnt cry

But he looked sad

Hope the teacher is a nice one, and that they gel together

She seemed nice and gave him a big welcome hug!

Wishing them all the best, and wishing courage and blessings to their teachers as they instruct them in these formative years!

Friday, 6 May 2016

Nephew numero uno!!

My small sister got a baby 12 years ago today

This was the first baby in our house after a long time....ehh....given that she is the last born...and therefore the 'baby' of the house :)

So we stared at the boy in fascination and indeed jumped everytime he so much as had a cough - one time a contingent rushed him  and his mum to hospital since he had thrown up and the amused doctor concluded the 'consultation' by saying...eh....next time, hold him up in this (angled) position when he is feeding ...sawa....eh...pass by the receptionist/cashier on your way out!!

Here we are, 12 years later - a fine kid to be around and loved by all his other cousins and friends. Eight more grandkids have popped for my parents, and to me, I always maintain that that this boy exposed us to what it means to be an aunty or uncle and of course later a parent!!

My dearest nephew, may Grace and Peace be yours in abundance through the knowledge of God and of Jesus our Lord!! (2 Peter 2).

Wishing happy birthday to Nephew No 1, we love you loads!!

May you have many many many more!! <3 <3 <3 <3