Wednesday 24 February 2021

Series of firsts> The future is female!

 

Excitement!!

WTO is having a new head

and its the indomitable Ngozi

Dr Okonjo-Iweala will become the first woman 

and first African to be chosen as DG

Director General!!

She starts March 1

and people all around were wearing head gear like hers

in honour of this great milestone

Loved this pic from the internet

The future is indeed female!

Series of firsts > First job after campus

 so in 1998

i cleared campus

looked for a job

and got a marketing gig

now now

introvert me....this was such a wrong match

i walked up and down the city

looking for clients

nada!

while colleagues are thriving

payment was made in cash

every friday

round a table!

finally

one colleague took pity on me

told me to set up appointment

and he would close the deal

sure enough!

he did

even if it was for the smallest space in the magazine

i mentally checked out

they asked me for an article

and thats the second and final payment i got 

and stepped out

Oakland Media!

waaaaaaaaaa

Tuesday 23 February 2021

Series of firsts > First day at a real job!

september 1998

i have arrived early

ngong road offices

coalition on violence against women

its 9am

i enter and am asked politely, who called you??

am in shock!

anyways, there was a small misunderstanding

and am ushered in and start

first assignment was an audit

my induction was an audit!

and the person was headed back to his station

in Iran or something like that

so he rushed through it

baptism by fire

i got the hang of it

and stayed for 6 years

covaw shaped my view on human rights

on women's rights

on volunteerism

on professionalism

am indebted!

Series of firsts > First day in secondary school

 year is 1989

i have been admitted to chox

the limuru girls high school

am excited

glad that am closer to the city

than in my primary school far away in western

everything needed is brown

even the underpants!!

LOL

we swing into school with my dad

in a london cab no less

its the black new taxis in town

we were shown the rooms

we are 8 in the room

and my roommates have all come

one is from turkana, 

never seen someone from turkana before!

am excited

my dad leaves

and am left to face the next four years

am excited

so help me God!





Series of firsts > First curfew experience

 year is 1982

i was just 8 years old

i remember the low tones

everything seemed darker

the word curfew was all over the news

something bad seemed to have happened

not sure if i saw or heard

that several people were told to lie

on the floor

near the junction of ministry of water

south c

fast forward

to years later

corona has us all curfewed

and its one year since 

so help us God




Friday 19 February 2021

Series of firsts > First day in Primary school

 so its 1981

probably january 1981

i join class one

with me twin sis

we are in our shiny new uniforms!

with bright red sweaters

my other sis is in class 3

and she is a ball of energy

she drags our reluctant hands

to the class 

saying loudly

hello teacher!

here are my sisters!!

am scared

don't know what to expect

i remember the smell of freshly shaved pencils

and the smell of warm milk

in small colourful mugs

or was this a memory from kindergarten?

oh well

its a long time ago

:)


Series of firsts > First time in the Big Apple!

So...........

i was seated there

in the office

minding my own business

when an email from IEE came through

some forwarded email

for internship grants

am like...oh well....never hurts  to try!

and that's how i found my self

in the Big Apple

year is 2001 (i think)

interning at Equality Now

for 6 weeks!

Imagine that! 

and being summer, with the long days

i wondered around each corner of NYC 

solo traveler

every evening!

not even scared!

took the bus

took the train

went to Staten Island

went to Brooklyn

went to Madison Square Garden

went to Times Square

Sat in central park

went for dinner at the Twin Towers 

heck! i even joined a protest march!


Bliss!



Series of firsts > First time seeing the ocean!

 i love the ocean

endless mass of water

merging with horizon

the calming feeling of just staring

at the wide unknown

first time i saw this wonder

was in dar es salaam

circa 1993

we had gone to visit dad

it was a public beach i think

and he said

wash your face with the water

as a way paying homage

and i looked at it

with utter amazement

and realised why

in olden days

people worshiped the ocean!






 

Tuesday 16 February 2021

Series of firsts > First flight

 So this February, I start a short story series on my first


My first flight

This was incidentally on Christmas day

We had gone to Dar es salaam to visit my father and he surprised us with a flight back to Nairobi

I was beside myself

We all wore smart!! since it was Christmas + it was  a big day for all of us using a flight for the first time

Cant even remember the logistics involved

All I can recall is being seated and staring around in wonderment!! (if that is a word!)

Wow...its so nice to enjoy that experience with family members










Thursday 11 February 2021

WFH!

 So a new term has gain traction this past year


WFH


Working from home!


I must say I enjoy it


I had a some 15months stint at WFH some time back and was BORED!


Main reason was because the work was limited and I had to be present and not go about doing my own thing


However, with this one for 2020/2021 I enjoy it immensely


But I always wonder whether a little distraction doesn't make me more effective


Whole of 2020 I was WFH at the same time being Assistant Teacher! 


and I was more effective!


Now that the house is SILENT since kids are back in school


I tend to less efficient


whats that about!!


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Letter to me

Dear 21 year old me

I see you

I see you standing there my the door of your room...with a poster behind you done by an artist friend

Cant remember who took this photo

and why you removed your specs

Anyways, 25 years later everything is fine

Doubt if you imagined where you would be 25 years from this picture

But its all good

No harm in looking 5 years ahead

or even 5 years behind

and taking in all the lessons

just rise up

and show up

and be Thankful to God always!!

Living in the moment!

 Its nearly one year


Since the world was put on hold


Now more than ever


Just live in the moment